YEAR OF THE "KABET"

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MISTRESS  Part of Speech:  noun 
Definition:  ladylove 

Synonyms:  bedmate, best girl, chatelaine, concubine, courtesan, doxy, dream girl, fancy woman, girlfriend, inamorata, kept woman, ladylove, main squeeze, moll, old lady, other woman, paramour, prostitute, roommate, shack, shack job, sugar, sweetheart, sweetie 

WIKIPEDIA says...

A mistress is a long-term female lover and companion who is not married to her partner;

 the term is used especially when her partner is married. The relationship generally is stable and at least semi-permanent; however, the couple does not live together openly. Also the relationship is usually, but not always, secret. There is an implication that a mistress may be "kept"—i.e., that the lover is paying for some of the woman's living expenses.

The word mistress was originally used as a neutral counterpart to mister or master.

It’s a devastating experience to discover that your partner is cheating on your back, especially if you have been so faithful to the person. It is painful to accept the fact that you have been fooled and betrayed by someone whom you have trusted. Your initial reaction is to hate and curse the person. It is even more painful to be cheated upon on a guy’s side, knowing how men care about their ego. If you happen to have a cheating girlfriend, there’s a great chance that you lose your respect for her. Once respect and trust are broken, it is already hard for you to maintain your relationship. It is much better that you just put an end to your relationship or you can learn more tips and ways on how to get over a cheating girlfriend.

•Accept the damage. It may be hard to accept the damage caused by the infidelity but you don’t have any other option but to acknowledge it.
•Release your emotions. If you feel hatred for her, go on and hate her.
•Let her go. She has done it once and you cannot give yourself an assurance that she won’t do it again. It is also difficult for you to revive the trust again so you will always be flooded with doubts, suspicions, and fears.
•Gaining back your confidence. Do not let the infidelity ruin your self-esteem. It may have been affected but you should regain what you have lost and then go on with your life.
•Distract yourself. Instead of thinking about what happened, why don’t you go out with friends and get a life? Keep yourself busy so you won’t have time to think of her.
Just give yourself enough time and you will be able to get over your cheating girlfriend. There’s no need to rush.

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